I do not think this is a feasible journey at the present time unless you have fluent language skills, very substantial local knowledge and back-up contacts in several/all of the countries through which you will pass . Local circumstances, regulations and, consequently, personal safety can and do change very quickly indeed.
1. Syria is of course out of the equation. As it is impossible to enter
Lebanon from
Israel getting to
Tripoli via that route is not an option.
2. Any land route involves driving through
Saudi Arabia. Although women are now allowed to drive, it is my understanding that even transit visas for the country are difficult to obtain.....and more so for land border crossings.
3. A car ferry operated between
Dubai and
Iran in the very recent past and may still do so. It is still possible to cross into
Turkey from both
Iran and
Iraq, though I cannot say what documentation you might require nor what difficulties you might encounter en route and/or at the border.
I strongly advise you to shelve the idea of driving and make alternative arrangements.
