I am needing to plan a day trip; couples and a ladies fun day. What are some must dos?
Pedicab tour Gaslamp, Seaport Village, walk waterfront - drinks/dinner
Hornblower Cruise (or private sailing tour)
Ladies - spa day and lunch at local resort (depending on where you are staying - Rancho Bernardo Inn, etc.)
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La Jolla Cove is gorgeous, you can spot some seals sunbathing on the rocks above the beach on the north end of the cove. Take the stairs down to the rocks and you'll have an up-close-and-personal experience with them :)