I'm particularly looking for evening/night time things to do. I'd love to go SUPing somewhere at dusk, go to beaches, art galleries, wine bars, music venues, etc, so any suggestions to those places would be awesome. I'll be there on a Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday if there's anything going on those nights. Thanks!
Coming from the East Coast, I wasn't super familiar with what an "acai bowl" meant, but on a recent trip to San Diego, I became hooked. My friends took me to this small, kitschy spot called the Lazy Hummingbird in Ocean Beach. It's half FedEx, half cafe, and the absolute BEST breakfast/brunch food for a sunny morning. We sat outside in some rocking chairs and listened to a live beat-poetry show going on inside. Plus, it's a short distance to the beach for a nice apres meal walk. Definitely recommend, especially if you're not from the West Coast and want a nice taste of San Diego culture.
Oceanside (California) is a military town so there are a number of fun bars in the downtown area. For art galleries and wine bars I would probably drive to Carlsbad (California) which is about 10 minutes south. Downtown Oceanside and downtown Carlsbad are both pretty small and easy to walk around so you shouldn't have an issue finding fun places.
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